No, I'm not only referring to work here but any goal you're trying to achieve right now.
Before you can make progress towards any improvement or goal you need to ask yourself one all-important question. This step is often forgotten..
Ask yourself why.
Why are you doing whatever it is that you are doing?
If you focus on the why's behind what you think you want you will be so much more certain to succeed. You will be clearer when you need to decide. Your actions will be designed to help you make your dream reality.
Often low self esteem takes hold because of confusion about your purpose and reasons for what you're doing. Self-doubt grows out of confusion and indecision.
Don't be content to ask yourself what you want but also ask why you want it?
Go deeper and you will understand yourself better and be surer of your path ahead.
Always ask yourself why and what it is that you're really in search of. When you spend time digging into your real reasons for your decisions - you will find they are not the reasons you've been telling yourself for so long.
In the same way, looking at the why's may show you that what you're trying to achieve is not really what you need.
Focus on the why's and be clear about what you want...
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Why, indeed. I learned something new a few weeks ago from a thought leader the name eludes me at this moment and he suggested that when we are affirming a goal instead of using the phrase "I am" that we should use the word "why." For example instead of affirming "I am a money magnet," we should say "Why am I a money magnet."
ReplyDeleteI am open to new ideas and have started using the word "why" for my affirmations.
I loved this. I have noticed looking back and even now that every time I stopped and really questioned my intent for doing something and sometimes that meant letting go of certain things, that I became a better person because of it. Sometimes to soar higher you must delve deeper. Thank you for sharing your words. :)
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