Friday, 26 March 2010

I decide...

Here are the words to a song I just heard - read the words - they are incredible!

The song is by Lindsay Lohan and you can listen to it at the end (the words and the message are more important than the music). Enjoy it:

"I Decide"

Don't think that you can tell me what to think
I'm the one who knows what's good for me
And I'm stating my independence
Gonna take the road I'm gonna take
And I'm gonna make my own mistakes
It's my life
I decide

I decide how I live
I decide who I love
Choice is mine
And no one gets to make my mind up
I decide
I decide where I go
What I need
Who I know
I'm the one who's runnin' my life
I decide
I decide

Don't think you're ever gonna hold me down
Couldn't do it then can't do it now
I'm kickin' down all the fences
I'm gonna do it all and do too much
And if I mess the whole thing up
It's my ride
I decide

I decide how I live
I decide who I love
Choice is mine
And no one gets to make my mind up
I decide
I decide where I go
Where I sleep
Who I know
I'm the one who's runnin' my life
I decide
I decide

I'm taking my own chances
And I'm finding my own answers
I'm only answering to me
And that's the way it's gonna be
I decide
Oh yeah
I decide
I decide

I decide how I live
I decide who I love
Choice is mine
And no one gets to make my mind up
I decide
I decide where I go
Where I sleep
Who I know
I'm the one who's runnin' my life
I decide
I decide

I decide how I live
I decide who I love
Choice is mine
And no one gets to make my mind up
I decide

Friday, 12 March 2010

The doubts of Today..

I've often said that great quotes can inspire you to make positive changes in your life. Here's a wonderful quote I read today:

"The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be the doubts of today"

- Franklin J. Roosevelt

Isn't that so true? I'd like to ask you a question:

How can you create something good in your life if you are filled with doubts?

It's impossible. So if you want to bring more good things into your life before you do anything else - remove the doubts. Start believing and it will happen.

Doubts are negative thoughts and they bring more negative thoughts. When you focus on reasons for failure you will cause failure. Positive thoughts help you to create a better future but how can you remove your doubts?

This is where you may get stuck. You realize the problem but don't know how to solve it. In the next few days I'll post again with steps you can take to remove your doubts and start believing in the power you have to succeed.

Make sure you revisit this blog for more...

Check out some positive videos here:
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/video.htm

Monday, 22 February 2010

The Natural Approach to Depression

Take a look at this video which talks about a natural approach to depression. Interesting stuff!

Friday, 22 January 2010

Personal Accountability..

Watch this great video. It explains self acceptance and much more..

Some great advice here for you. Self acceptance is definitely the most important first step to changing yourself and becoming a happier person.

Enjoy it...

Monday, 11 January 2010

Do what you enjoy...

"There is no value in doing something you don't enjoy"

One of the best ways you can help yourself to boost your
self esteem is to give yourself more time to do what you
want...

What do you love doing?

Give yourself more time. You are helping the world most when
you love what you do.

One of the most important things you could do right now is
focus on what you want to do with your time and how you can
make more time to do it.

Stop filling your life with duties and responsibilities and
start respecting your own wishes.

There are plenty of people who place demands on your time. Think carefully before you make promises and sacrifice your time. If they truly need you and it is for a good reason then of course help them out. We are not talking about being selfish here.

Realise that you deserve time to yourself, time for you. It's all about valuing yourself and achieving that balance between helping others and helping yourself.

You may need help with this so...

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Saturday, 9 January 2010

Exciting News...


I have some exciting news...

I have been working on this and planning this for some time and I can announce that very soon I will be offering a FREE CD called "A More Confident You" to anyone who would like to receive it...

Yes I said FREE!!

The CD is over 60 minutes long and I am going to send it out to whoever wants it - tips, techniques and advice about increasing your self esteem and confidence. Your going to love it...

How can you get it?

I will tell you in the next week or so...be sure to come back here for news as I have it.

You'll increase your confidence
Eliminate your fears
Increase your self esteem
Understand what's holding you back and...

learn what to do to make 2010 your best year yet!

And to all those who get the free CD I am also going to offer something else..

Instant access and a FREE 30 day trial to my new "Aspire to be You" membership site!

I'll post more news in the next couple of days...

EXCITED?

I AM AND YOU SHOULD BE TOO!

Tuesday, 5 January 2010

Anger Directed Inside You is...

I've just found an exciting video I want to share with you..but first let me ask you this:

Have you ever heard that depression is anger directed inside you?

I really agree with that definition. If anger directed within can hurt you so badly and become so powerful a negative force then why not use that anger to beat depression?

Before I give you that link just think about what depression does to you and how it has affected you and start to get mad at it a little. Ask yourself how much you want to get rid of it.

Also, let me remind you how low self esteem is a big part of depression and you must work on building your self esteem constantly.

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It's not difficult to build your self esteem and confidence

Click to find out how:
My Self Esteem E-book
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Here's the link to the video I promised you:

Try it and tell me if it helped you...

Watch this depression video now
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I hope you enjoy it,

Until next time,
Don't give in to your depression!

Karl Perera