When you have a problem to solve or a major challenge in your life, how do you think about it?
Perhaps you have something that you need to do but inside you think that it's very difficult.
I found myself making challenges even worse by focusing on the problem and not on the solution.
Our brains look for problems to solve. There are many around but what do you do when you run into a problem or challenge you need to face?
Sometimes thinking about the problem can make it worse. How?
By focusing on the difficulties and obstacles that lie ahead. If you do this you magnify the problems in your mind and paralyze yourself. You are most likely to take action when you feel you can succeed but focusing on the obstacles and difficulties destroys action.
Are you spending your energy building up your problems until they seem like huge unbreakable walls in front of you?
I have done this to myself many times but now I am convinced that those with vision and a will to succeed are those who can look beyond the problems and difficulties and begin to break down the fear by focusing their energy on solutions.
Think of a challenge you face in your life. Maybe a change you need to make. How have you been thinking about it? Isn't it about time you began to channel your thought and energy into how to move forward and stop focusing on how difficult it all looks?
I'll be back with more very soon...
Take care,
Karl Perera
this helped me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76lDJlhl7pM
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